I have a theory that most of us feel inadequate quite a lot of the time: we look around us and think that A is more intelligent than we are; B is more successful; C is richer, and so on.
We also excel at giving ourselves a hard time, and treat our selves worse that we would treat our worst enemies.
I also have a theory that our feelings of inadequacy are responsible for most of the ills of the world; and that people are aggressive to protect themselves.
There are salesmen who quiver like jellies before each call; and there are those who will sit in their car outside a customer's office and never bring themselves to go in.
You are you, and there is no one else like you - which makes you unique. So measuring yourself against anyone else is a nonsense.
You can use NLP to discover who that 'you' is, and how you would like to be.
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